Beginner's Guide to Lustdick: everything you need to know about dildos

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Step 1: Choose the Right Size (This Is Where Most People Go Wrong)

First-timers almost always overestimate what they can handle — or underestimate it out of fear.

For vaginal use:

  • Start with an insertable length of 4–5 In and a diameter of 1.4–1.8 In
  • A firm inner core with a soft outer layer (dual-density silicone) mimics natural feel far better than a uniformly hard toy — your body responds to it more naturally

For anal use:

  • Go smaller: 3.2–4 In insertable, diameter under 1.4 In
  • A flared base or suction cup is non-negotiable for safety

Step 2: Gather What You Actually Need

  • ✅ Water-based lubricant — silicone lube degrades platinum-cured silicone over time
  • ✅ Clean towel or waterproof mat
  • ✅ Warm water + mild soap for before/after cleaning
  • ✅ Privacy and time — rushing is the #1 reason first experiences go badly

Skip: numbing creams. They mask pain signals your body uses to tell you something's wrong.

Step 3: Clean the Toy Before Use

Even brand-new toys should be washed before first use.

  1. Rinse with warm (not hot) water
  2. Apply a small amount of unscented mild soap
  3. Lather gently, rinse thoroughly
  4. Pat dry with a clean cloth or let air dry

Platinum-cured silicone is non-porous — bacteria can't hide inside the material. A proper wash is all you need.

Step 4: Set Up Your Position

Your position affects everything — comfort, depth control, and muscle tension.

Best positions for beginners:

Position Why It Works
On your back, knees bent Full control, easy to stop
On your side, knees slightly drawn up Relaxes pelvic floor muscles
Seated (suction cup on flat surface) Hands-free, natural angle

Avoid standing for your first time — it's harder to control depth and your muscles tend to tense up.

Step 5: Apply Lube — More Than You Think

This is the step people consistently under-do.

  • Apply lube to both the toy and yourself
  • Reapply if you feel any friction — dryness is the main cause of discomfort
  • With dual-density silicone, the soft outer layer holds lube well and distributes it naturally

There's no such thing as too much lube on a first attempt.

Step 6: Start Slow — Literally

Do not insert fully on the first attempt. This isn't a movie.

  1. Begin with external stimulation for 2–5 minutes — let your body warm up
  2. Insert just the tip — pause, breathe, let your muscles adjust
  3. Go 1–2 cm deeper, pause again
  4. Only go further when your body feels ready, not when your brain decides it should be

The realistic texture on Lustdick silicone dildos (raised veins, skin-like surface) provides gentle stimulation even at shallow depths — you don't need full insertion to feel the difference.

Step 7: Find Your Angle

Anatomy varies. The "right" angle is the one that feels good for you.

  • Vaginal: A slight upward angle (toward your navel) often stimulates the anterior wall more effectively
  • Anal: A slight downward angle following the natural curve of the rectum reduces resistance

Move slowly, adjust the angle in small increments. If something feels sharp or wrong — stop. Discomfort is information.

Step 8: After You're Done — Clean Immediately

Don't leave it for later.

  1. Rinse with warm water immediately after use
  2. Wash with mild soap, rinse thoroughly
  3. Dry completely before storing
  4. Store in a breathable cotton pouch — not in contact with other silicone toys (silicone-on-silicone contact over time can cause surface degradation)

For products with Velvet Shield coating: the anti-stick, anti-dust surface makes post-use cleaning noticeably easier — less residue clings to the surface.

Common First-Timer Mistakes (Quick Reference)

Mistake Fix
Not enough lube Apply more, reapply during
Going too fast Pause at each depth increment
Wrong size (too large) Start with 10 cm insertable or less
Silicone lube on silicone toy Switch to water-based only
Skipping warm-up External stimulation first, always
Tensing up Slow exhale, consciously relax pelvic floor

Final Note

Your first time doesn't have to be perfect. It just has to be safe and comfortable enough that you want to try again.

The right toy, the right lube, and enough time make all the difference. Everything else is practice.